[Relationship] SY-03｜Good Child

For anyone who wants to let go of "I can't say no" and "I don't want to be disliked."

Wanting to matter to someone, you keep putting them first. But underneath that might not be love so much as a fear of being rejected. As the fear of rejection loosens, the need to keep living up to someone else's idea of "how you should be" starts to fall away too.

Why This Blend

The pattern of "I can't say no" and "I don't want to be disliked" is often a holdover from a "good child" strategy — securing safety in childhood by suppressing your real feelings. The pairing of Tangerine, a gentle citrus that evokes childhood, with Elemi, a resin long used to address shock, reflects a care for the wound where that suppression first began.

Tangerine and Lavender (Bulgarian) bring back the still-soft sensation from the time you first started trying to be "good." Elemi, a resin also used in embalming in ancient Egypt, is a material often turned to in modern aromatherapy practice for shock and trauma-related situations. Here it tends to the wound itself — the very beginning of learning to suppress your real feelings.

Jasmine symbolizes the process of your suppressed true self gradually finding expression, in an environment that finally feels safe.

Tips for Use

• Close your eyes, stand quietly, and take a few deep breaths.
• Mist above your head and beside both shoulders, and keep your eyes closed as you take in the scent.
• Use it whenever "I can't say no" or "I don't want to be disliked" feels especially strong, or when you notice you're putting someone else ahead of yourself again.

Our Commitment

Every FUUKA blend is meticulously crafted by Dutch perfumers, who consider how a scent opens, how long it lingers, and how each note plays off the others. We draw out the full potential of these plant-based aromas through careful sourcing and precise blending ratios.

For Safe Use

• This product is a fragrance mist. Please don't apply it directly to skin or ingest it.
• This mist contains alcohol. Don't apply it directly to skin — use it on your space or clothing instead.
• Keep away from open flames, and store out of reach of children and pets.
• Avoid direct sunlight and high heat or humidity, and be sure to close the cap tightly after each use.

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